Proverbs 18 · Verse 19

Proverbs 18:19

A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.
Proverbs 18:19, King James Version

Proverbs 18:19 in other translations

BSBAn offended brother is harder to win than a fortified city, and disputes are like the bars of a castle.
WEBA brother offended is more difficult than a fortified city. Disputes are like the bars of a fortress.
ASVA brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city; And such contentions are like the bars of a castle.
YLTA brother transgressed against is as a strong city, And contentions as the bar of a palace.
DARBYA brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city; and contentions are as the bars of a palace.
BBEA brother wounded is like a strong town, and violent acts are like a locked tower.
WebsterA brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.

What does Proverbs 18:19 mean?

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
19. No feuds so difficult of adjustment as those of relatives; hence great care should be used to avoid them.

Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown, 1871 · public domain

Adam Clarke's Commentary
Verse 19 A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city - Almost all the versions agree in the following reading: "A brother assisted by a brother, is like a fortified city; and their decisions are like the bars of a city." Coverdale is both plain and terse: "The unitie of brethren is stronger then a castell, and they that holde together are like the barre of a palace." The fable of the dying father, his sons, and the bundle of faggots, illustrates this proverb. Unity among brethren makes them invincible; small things grow great by concord. If we take the words according to the common version, we see them express what, alas! we know to be too generally true: that when brothers fall out, it is with extreme difficulty that they can be reconciled. And fraternal enmities are generally strong and inveterate.

Adam Clarke, 1831 · public domain

Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary
Great care must be taken to prevent quarrels among relations and those under obligations to each other. Wisdom and grace make it easy to forgive; but corruption makes it difficult.

Matthew Henry, 1706 · public domain

Proverbs 18:19 in the original Hebrew

Word-by-word with transliteration, English gloss and Strong's number. Tap a number for the full definition and every place the word is used.

אָ֗ח'Acha brotherH251
נִפְשָׁ֥עnif.Sha'transgressedH6586
מִקִּרְיַת\־mi.kir.yat-[is] more than a town ofH7151
עֹ֑ז'OzstrengthH5797
וּ֝מִדְיָנִ֗יםu.me.do.nimand contentionsH4079
כִּבְרִ֥יחַkiv.Ri.ach[are] like [the] bar ofH1280
אַרְמֽוֹן\׃'ar.Mona fortressH759

Source: STEPBible TAHOT/TAGNT (Tyndale House, CC BY 4.0).

Cross references for Proverbs 18:19

  • Proverbs 16:32

    He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.

  • Acts 15:39

    And the contention was so sharp between them, that they departed asunder one from the other: and so Barnabas took Mark, and sailed unto Cyprus;

  • Proverbs 6:19

    A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.

  • Genesis 37:3-5

    Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age: and he made him a coat of many colours. And when his brethren saw that their father loved him more than all his brethren, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably unto him. And Joseph dreamed a dream, and he told it his brethren: and they hated him yet the more.

  • 1 Kings 12:16

    So when all Israel saw that the king hearkened not unto them, the people answered the king, saying, What portion have we in David? neither have we inheritance in the son of Jesse: to your tents, O Israel: now see to thine own house, David. So Israel departed unto their tents.

  • Genesis 27:41-45

    And Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing wherewith his father blessed him: and Esau said in his heart, The days of mourning for my father are at hand; then will I slay my brother Jacob. And these words of Esau her elder son were told to Rebekah: and she sent and called Jacob her younger son, and said unto him, Behold, thy brother Esau, as touching thee, doth comfort himself, purposing to kill thee. Now therefore, my son, obey my voice; and arise, flee thou to Laban my brother to Haran; And tarry with him a few days, until thy brother’s fury turn away; …

  • Genesis 4:5-8

    But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell. And the Lord said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen? If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him. And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him.

  • 2 Samuel 13:22

    And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

  • 1 Kings 2:23-25

    Then king Solomon sware by the Lord, saying, God do so to me, and more also, if Adonijah have not spoken this word against his own life. Now therefore, as the Lord liveth, which hath established me, and set me on the throne of David my father, and who hath made me an house, as he promised, Adonijah shall be put to death this day. And king Solomon sent by the hand of Benaiah the son of Jehoiada; and he fell upon him that he died.

  • 2 Samuel 13:28

    Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant.

  • Genesis 32:6-11

    And the messengers returned to Jacob, saying, We came to thy brother Esau, and also he cometh to meet thee, and four hundred men with him. Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed: and he divided the people that was with him, and the flocks, and herds, and the camels, into two bands; And said, If Esau come to the one company, and smite it, then the other company which is left shall escape. And Jacob said, O God of my father Abraham, and God of my father Isaac, the Lord which saidst unto me, Return unto thy country, and to thy kindred, and I will deal well with thee: …

  • Genesis 37:18-27

    And when they saw him afar off, even before he came near unto them, they conspired against him to slay him. And they said one to another, Behold, this dreamer cometh. Come now therefore, and let us slay him, and cast him into some pit, and we will say, Some evil beast hath devoured him: and we shall see what will become of his dreams. And Reuben heard it, and he delivered him out of their hands; and said, Let us not kill him. …

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Treasury of Scripture Knowledge
brother.
6:19; Ge 4:5-8; 27:41-45; 32:6-11; 37:3-5,11,18-27; 2Sa 13:22,28
1Ki 2:23-25; 12:16; 2Ch 13:17; Ac 15:39
than.
16:32

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Context

  • Proverbs 18:18

    The lot causeth contentions to cease, and parteth between the mighty.

  • Proverbs 18:19

    A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.

  • Proverbs 18:20

    A man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled.

Read all of Proverbs 18

Proverbs 18:19 in other languages

Spanish
Reina-Valera 1909
El hermano ofendido es más tenaz que una ciudad fuerte: y las contiendas de los hermanos son como cerrojos de alcázar.
French
Bible J.N. Darby 1885
Un frère offensé est plus difficile à gagner qu’une ville forte, et les querelles sont comme les verrous d’un palais.
German
Elberfelder 1871
Ein Bruder, an dem man treulos gehandelt hat, widersteht mehr als eine feste Stadt; und Zwistigkeiten sind wie der Riegel einer Burg.
Latin
Clementine Vulgate
Frater qui adjuvatur a fratre quasi civitas firma, et judicia quasi vectes urbium.