2 Samuel 13 · Verse 12

2 Samuel 13:12

And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
2 Samuel 13:12, King James Version

2 Samuel 13:12 in other translations

BSB“No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not humiliate me, for such a thing should never be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!
WEBShe answered him, “No, my brother, do not force me! For no such thing ought to be done in Israel. Don’t you do this folly!
ASVAnd she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
YLTAnd she saith to him, ‘Nay, my brother, do not humble me, for it is not done so in Israel; do not this folly.
DARBYAnd she said to him, No, my brother, do not humble me; for no such thing is done in Israel: do not this infamy.
BBEAnd answering him, she said, O my brother, do not put shame on me; it is not right for such a thing to be done in Israel: do not this evil thing.
WebsterAnd she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

What does 2 Samuel 13:12 mean?

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on 2 Samuel 13:12-14
12-14. do not force me--The remonstrances and arguments of Tamar were so affecting and so strong, that had not Amnon been violently goaded on by the lustful passion of which he had become the slave, they must have prevailed with him to desist from his infamous purpose. In bidding him, however, "speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from thee," it is probable that she urged this as her last resource, saying anything she thought would please him, in order to escape for the present out of his hands.

Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown, 1871 · public domain

Adam Clarke's Commentary
Verse 12 Nay, my brother - There is something exceedingly tender and persuasive in this speech of Tamar; but Amnon was a mere brute, and it was all lost on him.

Adam Clarke, 1831 · public domain

Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:1-20

From henceforward David was followed with one trouble after another. Adultery and murder were David's sins, the like sins among his children were the beginnings of his punishment: he was too indulgent to his children. Thus David might trace the sins of his children to his own misconduct, which must have made the anguish of the chastisement worse. Let no one ever expect good treatment from those who are capable of…

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2 Samuel 13:12 in the original Hebrew

Word-by-word with transliteration, English gloss and Strong's number. Tap a number for the full definition and every place the word is used.

וַתֹּ֣אמֶרva.To.merand she saidH559
ל֗וֹloto <the> him
אַל\־'al-may [you] notH408
אָחִי֙'a.ChiO brother myH251
אַל\־'al-may notH408
תְּעַנֵּ֔נִיte.'a.Ne.niyou humble meH6031
כִּ֛יkiforH3588
לֹא\־lo'-notH3808
יֵֽעָשֶׂ֥הye.'a.Sehit will be doneH6213
כֵ֖ןkhenthusH3651
בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֑לbe.Yis.ra.'Elin IsraelH3478
אַֽל\־'al-may notH408
תַּעֲשֵׂ֖הta.'a.Sehyou doH6213
אֶת\־'et-<obj.>H853
הַנְּבָלָ֥הha.ne.va.Lahthe disgraceful follyH5039
הַזֹּֽאת\׃ha.Zot<the> thisH2063

Source: STEPBible TAHOT/TAGNT (Tyndale House, CC BY 4.0).

Cross references for 2 Samuel 13:12

  • Leviticus 20:17

    And if a man shall take his sister, his father’s daughter, or his mother’s daughter, and see her nakedness, and she see his nakedness; it is a wicked thing; and they shall be cut off in the sight of their people: he hath uncovered his sister’s nakedness; he shall bear his iniquity.

  • Judges 20:6

    And I took my concubine, and cut her in pieces, and sent her throughout all the country of the inheritance of Israel: for they have committed lewdness and folly in Israel.

  • Judges 19:23

    And the man, the master of the house, went out unto them, and said unto them, Nay, my brethren, nay, I pray you, do not so wickedly; seeing that this man is come into mine house, do not this folly.

  • Genesis 34:7

    And the sons of Jacob came out of the field when they heard it: and the men were grieved, and they were very wroth, because he had wrought folly in Israel in lying with Jacob’s daughter; which thing ought not to be done.

  • Leviticus 18:11

    The nakedness of thy father’s wife’s daughter, begotten of thy father, she is thy sister, thou shalt not uncover her nakedness.

  • Leviticus 18:9

    The nakedness of thy sister, the daughter of thy father, or daughter of thy mother, whether she be born at home, or born abroad, even their nakedness thou shalt not uncover.

  • Proverbs 5:22-23

    His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins. He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.

  • Proverbs 7:7

    And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,

  • Deuteronomy 22:29

    Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

  • Genesis 34:2

    And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.

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Treasury of Scripture Knowledge
force me. Heb. humble me.
Ge 34:2; De 22:29
no such thing ought. Heb. it ought not so.
Le 18:9,11; 20:17
folly.
Ge 34:7; Jud 19:23; 20:6; Pr 5:22,23; 7:7

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Context

  • 2 Samuel 13:11

    And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.

  • 2 Samuel 13:12

    And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

  • 2 Samuel 13:13

    And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.

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2 Samuel 13:12 in other languages

Spanish
Reina-Valera 1909
Ella entonces le respondió: No, hermano mío, no me hagas fuerza; porque no se ha de hacer así en Israel. No hagas tal desacierto.
French
Bible J.N. Darby 1885
Et elle lui dit: Non, mon frère, ne m’humilie pas; car on ne fait point ainsi en Israël: ne fais pas cette infamie.
German
Elberfelder 1871
Und sie sprach zu ihm: Nicht doch, mein Bruder! schwäche mich nicht, denn also tut man nicht in Israel; begehe nicht diese Schandtat!
Latin
Clementine Vulgate
Quæ respondit ei: Noli frater mi, noli opprimere me: neque enim hoc fas est in Israël: noli facere stultitiam hanc.