Proverbs 23 · Verse 7

Proverbs 23:7

For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
Proverbs 23:7, King James Version

Proverbs 23:7 in other translations

BSBfor he is keeping track, inwardly counting the cost. “Eat and drink,” he says to you, but his heart is not with you.
WEBfor as he thinks about the cost, so he is. “Eat and drink!” he says to you, but his heart is not with you.
ASVFor as he thinketh within himself, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; But his heart is not with thee.
YLTFor as he hath thought in his soul, so is he, ‘Eat and drink,' saith he to thee, And his heart is not with thee.
DARBYFor as he thinketh in his soul, so is he. Eat and drink! will he say unto thee; but his heart is not with thee.
BBEFor as the thoughts of his heart are, so is he: Take food and drink, he says to you; but his heart is not with you.
WebsterFor as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.

What does Proverbs 23:7 mean?

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on Proverbs 23:6-8

6-8. Beware of deceitful men, whose courtesies even you will repent of having accepted. evil eye--or purpose (Pr 22:9; De 15:9; Mt 6:23).

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Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary on Proverbs 23:6-8

Do not make thyself burdensome to any, especially those not sincere. When we are called by God to his feast, and to let our souls delight themselves, Is 25:6; 55:2, we may safely partake of the Bread of life.

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Proverbs 23:7 in the original Hebrew

Word-by-word with transliteration, English gloss and Strong's number. Tap a number for the full definition and every place the word is used.

כִּ֤י\׀kiforH3588
כְּמוֹ\־ke.mov-asH3644
שָׁעַ֥רsha.'Arhe calculatesH8176
בְּנַפְשׁ֗וֹbe.naf.Shoin self hisH5315
כֶּ֫ן\־Ken-[is] soH3651
ה֥וּאhu'heH1931
אֱכֹ֣ל'e.KholeatH398
וּ֭שְׁתֵהU.she.tehand drinkH8354
יֹ֣אמַרYo.marhe saysH559
לָ֑ךְLakhto you
וְ֝לִבּ֗וֹve.li.Boand heart hisH3820
בַּל\־bal-notH1077
עִמָּֽךְ\׃'i.Makh[is] with youH5973

Source: STEPBible TAHOT/TAGNT (Tyndale House, CC BY 4.0).

Cross references for Proverbs 23:7

  • Psalms 12:2

    They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak.

  • Psalms 55:21

    The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords.

  • Judges 16:15

    And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth.

  • Matthew 9:3-4

    And, behold, certain of the scribes said within themselves, This man blasphemeth. And Jesus knowing their thoughts said, Wherefore think ye evil in your hearts?

  • Luke 11:37-54

    And as he spake, a certain Pharisee besought him to dine with him: and he went in, and sat down to meat. And when the Pharisee saw it, he marvelled that he had not first washed before dinner. And the Lord said unto him, Now do ye Pharisees make clean the outside of the cup and the platter; but your inward part is full of ravening and wickedness. Ye fools, did not he that made that which is without make that which is within also? …

  • Luke 7:39

    Now when the Pharisee which had bidden him saw it, he spake within himself, saying, This man, if he were a prophet, would have known who and what manner of woman this is that toucheth him: for she is a sinner.

  • Daniel 11:27

    And both these kings’ hearts shall be to do mischief, and they shall speak lies at one table; but it shall not prosper: for yet the end shall be at the time appointed.

  • Proverbs 19:22

    The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better than a liar.

  • 2 Samuel 13:26-28

    Then said Absalom, If not, I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee? But Absalom pressed him, that he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him. Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant.

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19:22; Mt 9:3,4; Lu 7:39
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Jud 16:15; 2Sa 13:26-28; Ps 12:2; 55:21; Da 11:27; Lu 11:37-54

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Context

  • Proverbs 23:6

    Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:

  • Proverbs 23:7

    For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.

  • Proverbs 23:8

    The morsel which thou hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.

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Proverbs 23:7 in other languages

Spanish
Reina-Valera 1909
Porque cual es su pensamiento en su alma, tal es él. Come y bebe, te dirá; mas su corazón no está contigo.
French
Bible J.N. Darby 1885
car comme il a pensé dans son âme, tel il est. Mange et bois, te dira-t-il; mais son cœur n’est pas avec toi.
German
Elberfelder 1871
Denn wie er es abmißt in seiner Seele, so ist er. "Iß und trink!", spricht er zu dir, aber sein Herz ist nicht mit dir.
Latin
Clementine Vulgate
quoniam in similitudinem arioli et conjectoris æstimat quod ignorat. Comede et bibe, dicet tibi; et mens ejus non est tecum.