Absalom, son of David
The name Absalom means “father of peace.” Absalom is mentioned in 91 verses of the Bible, first in 2 Samuel 3:3. Also called Abishalom.
Family of Absalom
Who was Absalom?
Father of peace; i.e., “peaceful” David’s son by Maacah (2 Sam. 3:3; comp. 1 Kings 1:6). He was noted for his personal beauty and for the extra-ordinary profusion of the hair of his head (2 Sam. 14:25,26). The first public act of his life was the blood-revenge he executed against Amnon, David’s eldest son, who had basely wronged Absalom’s sister Tamar. This revenge was executed at the time of the festivities connected with a great sheep-shearing at Baal-hazor. David’s other sons fled from the place in horror, and brought the tidings of the death of Amnon to Jerusalem. Alarmed for the consequences of the act, Absalom fled to his grandfather at Geshur, and there abode for three years (2 Sam. 3:3; 13:23-38).
David mourned his absent son, now branded with the guilt of fratricide. As the result of a stratagem carried out by a woman of Tekoah, Joab received David’s sanction to invite Absalom back to Jerusalem. He returned accordingly, but two years elapsed before his father admitted him into his presence (2 Sam. 14:28). Absalom was now probably the oldest surviving son of David, and as he was of royal descent by his mother as well as by his father, he began to aspire to the throne. His pretensions were favoured by the people. By many arts he gained their affection; and after his return from Geshur (2 Sam. 15:7; marg., R.V.) he went up to Hebron, the old capital of Judah, along with a great body of the people, and there proclaimed himself king. The revolt was so successful that David found it necessary to quit Jerusalem and flee to Mahanaim, beyond Jordan; where upon Absalom returned to Jerusalem and took possession of the throne without opposition. Ahithophel, who had been David’s chief counsellor, deserted him and joined Absalom, whose chief counsellor he now became. Hushai also joined Absalom, but only for the purpose of trying to counteract the counsels of Ahithophel, and so to advantage David’s cause. He was so far successful that by his advice, which was preferred to that of Ahithophel, Absalom delayed to march an army against his father, who thus gained time to prepare for the defence.
Absalom at length marched out against his father, whose army, under the command of Joab, he encountered on the borders of the forest of Ephraim. Twenty thousand of Absalom’s army were slain in that fatal battle, and the rest fled. Absalom fled on a swift mule; but his long flowing hair, or more probably his head, was caught in the bough of an oak, and there he was left suspended till Joab came up and pierced him through with three darts. His body was then taken down and cast into a pit dug in the forest, and a heap of stones was raised over his grave. When the tidings of the result of that battle were brought to David, as he sat impatiently at the gate of Mahanaim, and he was told that Absalom had been slain, he gave way to the bitter lamentation: “O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!” (2 Sam. 18:33. Comp. Ex. 32:32; Rom. 9:3).
Absalom’s three sons (2 Sam. 14:27; comp. 18:18) had all died before him, so that he left only a daughter, Tamar, who became the grandmother of Abijah.
Biography adapted from Easton's Bible Dictionary (1897), public domain, linked via Theographic Bible Metadata.
Key verses about Absalom
- 2 Samuel 3:3
And his second, Chileab, of Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of Maacah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur;
- 2 Samuel 13:1
And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
- 2 Samuel 13:4
And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king’s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.
- 2 Samuel 14:25
But in all Israel there was none to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty: from the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him.
- 2 Samuel 15:31
And one told David, saying, Ahithophel is among the conspirators with Absalom. And David said, O Lord, I pray thee, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness.
- 2 Samuel 18:33
And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!
All 91 verses mentioning Absalom
- 2 Samuel 3:3
- 2 Samuel 13:1
- 2 Samuel 13:4
- 2 Samuel 13:20
- 2 Samuel 13:22
- 2 Samuel 13:23
- 2 Samuel 13:24
- 2 Samuel 13:25
- 2 Samuel 13:26
- 2 Samuel 13:27
- 2 Samuel 13:28
- 2 Samuel 13:29
- 2 Samuel 13:30
- 2 Samuel 13:32
- 2 Samuel 13:34
- 2 Samuel 13:37
- 2 Samuel 13:38
- 2 Samuel 13:39
- 2 Samuel 14:1
- 2 Samuel 14:21
- 2 Samuel 14:23
- 2 Samuel 14:24
- 2 Samuel 14:25
- 2 Samuel 14:27
- 2 Samuel 14:28
- 2 Samuel 14:29
- 2 Samuel 14:30
- 2 Samuel 14:31
- 2 Samuel 14:32
- 2 Samuel 14:33
- 2 Samuel 15:1
- 2 Samuel 15:2
- 2 Samuel 15:3
- 2 Samuel 15:4
- 2 Samuel 15:6
- 2 Samuel 15:7
- 2 Samuel 15:10
- 2 Samuel 15:11
- 2 Samuel 15:12
- 2 Samuel 15:13
- 2 Samuel 15:14
- 2 Samuel 15:31
- 2 Samuel 15:34
- 2 Samuel 15:37
- 2 Samuel 16:8
- 2 Samuel 16:15
- 2 Samuel 16:16
- 2 Samuel 16:17
- 2 Samuel 16:18
- 2 Samuel 16:20
- 2 Samuel 16:21
- 2 Samuel 16:22
- 2 Samuel 16:23
- 2 Samuel 17:1
- 2 Samuel 17:4
- 2 Samuel 17:5
- 2 Samuel 17:6
- 2 Samuel 17:7
- 2 Samuel 17:9
- 2 Samuel 17:14
- 2 Samuel 17:15
- 2 Samuel 17:18
- 2 Samuel 17:20
- 2 Samuel 17:24
- 2 Samuel 17:25
- 2 Samuel 17:26
- 2 Samuel 18:5
- 2 Samuel 18:9
- 2 Samuel 18:10
- 2 Samuel 18:12
- 2 Samuel 18:14
- 2 Samuel 18:15
- 2 Samuel 18:17
- 2 Samuel 18:18
- 2 Samuel 18:29
- 2 Samuel 18:32
- 2 Samuel 18:33
- 2 Samuel 19:1
- 2 Samuel 19:4
- 2 Samuel 19:6
- 2 Samuel 19:9
- 2 Samuel 19:10
- 2 Samuel 20:6
- 1 Kings 1:6
- 1 Kings 2:7
- 1 Kings 2:28
- 1 Kings 15:2
- 1 Kings 15:10
- 1 Chronicles 3:2
- 2 Chronicles 11:20
- 2 Chronicles 11:21