Luke 14 · Verse 12

Luke 14:12

Then said he also to him that bade him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, neither thy kinsmen, nor thy rich neighbours; lest they also bid thee again, and a recompence be made thee.
Luke 14:12, King James Version

Luke 14:12 in other translations

BSBThen Jesus said to the man who had invited Him, “When you host a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or brothers or relatives or rich neighbors. Otherwise, they may invite you in return, and you will be repaid.
WEBHe also said to the one who had invited him, “When you make a dinner or a supper, don’t call your friends, nor your brothers, nor your kinsmen, nor rich neighbors, or perhaps they might also return the favor, and pay you back.
ASVAnd he said to him also that had bidden him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, nor thy kinsmen, nor rich neighbors; lest haply they also bid thee again, and a recompense be made thee.
YLTAnd he said also to him who did call him, ‘When thou mayest make a dinner or a supper, be not calling thy friends, nor thy brethren, nor thy kindred, nor rich neighbours, lest they may also call thee again, and a recompense may come to thee;
DARBYAnd he said also to him that had invited him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, nor thy kinsfolk, nor rich neighbours, lest it may be they also should invite thee in return, and a recompense be made thee.
BBEAnd he said to the master of the house, When you give a feast, do not send for your friends and your brothers and your family or your neighbours who have wealth, for they may give a feast for you, and so you will get a reward.
WebsterThen said he also to him that invited him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, neither thy kinsmen, nor thy rich neighbors; lest they also invite thee again, and a recompense be made thee.

What does Luke 14:12 mean?

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on Luke 14:12-14
12-14. call not thy friends--Jesus certainly did not mean us to dispense with the duties of ordinary fellowship, but, remitting these to their proper place, inculcates what is better [Bengel]. lest ... a recompense be given thee--a fear the world is not afflicted with [Bengel]. The meaning, however, is that no exercise of principle is involved in it, as selfishness itself will suffice to prompt to it (Mt 5:46, 47).

Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown, 1871 · public domain

Barnes' Notes
Verse 12. Call not thy friends, &c. This is not to be understood as commanding us not to entertain at all our relatives and friends; but we are to remember the design with which our Lord spoke. He intended, doubtless, to reprove those who sought the society of the wealthy, and particularly rich relatives, and those who claimed to be intimate with the great and honourable, and who, to show their intimacy, were in the habit of seeking their society, and making for them expensive entertainments. He meant, also, to commend charity shown to the poor. The passage means, therefore, call not only your friends, but call also the poor, &c. Comp. Ex 16:8, 1Sam 15:22, Jer 7:22,23 Mt 9:13.

Thy kinsmen. Thy relations.

A recompense. Lest they feel themselves bound to treat you with the same kindness, and, in so doing, neither you nor they will show any kind spirit, or any disposition to do good beyond what is repaid.

(f) "nor thy rich" Prov 22:16

Albert Barnes, 1834 · public domain

Adam Clarke's Commentary
Verse 12 Call not thy friends, etc. - Our Lord certainly does not mean that a man should not entertain at particular times, his friends, etc.; but what he inculcates here is charity to the poor; and what he condemns is those entertainments which are given to the rich, either to flatter them, or to procure a similar return; because the money that is thus criminally laid out properly belongs to the poor.

Adam Clarke, 1831 · public domain

Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary on Luke 14:7-14

Even in the common actions of life, Christ marks what we do, not only in our religious assemblies, but at our tables. We see in many cases, that a man's pride will bring him low, and before honour is humility. Our Saviour here teaches, that works of charity are better than works of show. But our Lord did not mean that a proud and unbelieving liberality should be rewarded, but that his precept of doing good to the…

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Luke 14:12 in the original Greek

Word-by-word with transliteration, English gloss and Strong's number. Tap a number for the full definition and every place the word is used.

ἜλεγενElegenHe was sayingG3004
δὲdethenG1161
καὶkaialsoG2532
τῷtōto the [one]G3588
κεκληκότιkeklēkotihaving invitedG2564
αὐτόν·autonHim;G846
ὅτανhotanWhenG3752
ποιῇςpoiēasyou may makeG4160
ἄριστονaristona dinnerG712
ἢēorG2228
δεῖπνον,deipnona supper,G1173
μὴmēnotG3361
φώνειphōneido callG5455
τοὺςtoustheG3588
φίλουςphilousfriendsG5384
σουsouof youG4771
μηδὲmēdenor [call]G3366
τοὺςtoustheG3588
ἀδελφούςadelphousbrothersG80
σουsouof youG4771
μηδὲmēdenor [call]G3366
τοὺςtoustheG3588
συγγενεῖςsungeneisrelativesG4773
σουsouof youG4771
μηδὲmēdenor [call]G3366
γείτοναςgeitonasneighboursG1069
πλουσίουςplousiousrichG4145
μήποτεmēpoteotherwiseG3361
καὶkaialsoG2532
αὐτοὶautoithey themselvesG846
ἀντικαλέσωσίνantikalesōsinmay invite in returnG479
σεseyouG4771
καὶkaiandG2532
γένηταιgenētaiit may becomeG1096
ἀνταπόδομάantapodomarecompenseG468
σοι.soito you.G4771

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Cross references for Luke 14:12

  • James 2:1-6

    My brethren, have not the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with respect of persons. For if there come unto your assembly a man with a gold ring, in goodly apparel, and there come in also a poor man in vile raiment; And ye have respect to him that weareth the gay clothing, and say unto him, Sit thou here in a good place; and say to the poor, Stand thou there, or sit here under my footstool: Are ye not then partial in yourselves, and are become judges of evil thoughts? …

  • Matthew 5:46

    For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?

  • Proverbs 22:16

    He that oppresseth the poor to increase his riches, and he that giveth to the rich, shall surely come to want.

  • Luke 6:32-36

    For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them. And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same. And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again. But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil. …

  • Proverbs 14:20

    The poor is hated even of his own neighbour: but the rich hath many friends.

  • Matthew 6:1-4

    Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven. Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward. But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.

  • Luke 1:53

    He hath filled the hungry with good things; and the rich he hath sent empty away.

  • Zechariah 7:5-7

    Speak unto all the people of the land, and to the priests, saying, When ye fasted and mourned in the fifth and seventh month, even those seventy years, did ye at all fast unto me, even to me? And when ye did eat, and when ye did drink, did not ye eat for yourselves, and drink for yourselves? Should ye not hear the words which the Lord hath cried by the former prophets, when Jerusalem was inhabited and in prosperity, and the cities thereof round about her, when men inhabited the south and the plain?

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when.
1:53; Pr 14:20; 22:16; Jas 2:1-6
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6:32-36; Zec 7:5-7; Mt 5:46; 6:1-4,16-18

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Context

  • Luke 14:11

    For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.

  • Luke 14:12

    Then said he also to him that bade him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, neither thy kinsmen, nor thy rich neighbours; lest they also bid thee again, and a recompence be made thee.

  • Luke 14:13

    But when thou makest a feast, call the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind:

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Luke 14:12 in other languages

Spanish
Reina-Valera 1909
Y dijo también al que le había convidado: Cuando haces comida ó cena, no llames á tus amigos, ni á tus hermanos, ni á tus parientes, ni á vecinos ricos; porque también ellos no te vuelvan á convidar, y te sea hecha compensación.
French
Bible J.N. Darby 1885
Et il dit aussi à celui qui l’avait convié: Quand tu fais un dîner ou un souper, n’appelle pas tes amis, ni tes frères, ni tes parents, ni de riches voisins; de peur qu’eux aussi ne te convient à leur tour, et que la pareille ne te soit rendue.
German
Elberfelder 1871
Er sprach aber auch zu dem, der ihn geladen hatte: Wenn du ein Mittags- oder ein Abendmahl machst, so lade nicht deine Freunde, noch deine Brüder, noch deine Verwandten, noch reiche Nachbarn, damit nicht etwa auch sie dich wiederladen und dir Vergeltung werde.
Latin
Clementine Vulgate
Dicebat autem et ei, qui invitaverat: Cum facis prandium, aut cœnam, noli vocare amicos tuos, neque fratres tuos, neque cognatos, neque vicinos divites: ne forte te et ipsi reinvitent, et fiat tibi retributio;