Proverbs 17 · Verse 14

Proverbs 17:14

The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.
Proverbs 17:14, King James Version

Proverbs 17:14 in other translations

BSBTo start a quarrel is to release a flood; so abandon the dispute before it breaks out.
WEBThe beginning of strife is like breaching a dam, therefore stop contention before quarreling breaks out.
ASVThe beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: Therefore leave off contention, before there is quarrelling.
YLTThe beginning of contention is a letting out of waters, And before it is meddled with leave the strife.
DARBYThe beginning of contention is as when one letteth out water; therefore leave off strife before it become vehement.
BBEThe start of fighting is like the letting out of water: so give up before it comes to blows.
WebsterThe beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore withdraw from contention, before it be meddled with.

What does Proverbs 17:14 mean?

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
14. letteth ... water--as a breach in a dam. before ... meddled with--before strife has become sharp, or, by an explanation better suiting the figure, before it rolls on, or increases.

Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown, 1871 · public domain

Adam Clarke's Commentary
Verse 14 The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water - As soon as the smallest breach is made in the dike or dam, the water begins to press from all parts towards the breach; the resistance becomes too great to be successfully opposed, so that dikes and all are speedily swept away. Such is the beginning of contentions, quarrels, lawsuits, etc. Leave off contention, before it be meddled with - As you see what an altercation must lead to, therefore do not begin it. Before it be mingled together, התגלע hithgalla, before the spirits of the contending parties come into conflict - are joined together in battle, and begin to deal out mutual reflections and reproaches. When you see that the dispute is likely to take this turn, leave it off immediately.

Adam Clarke, 1831 · public domain

Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary
What danger there is in the beginning of strife! Resist its earliest display; and leave it off, if it were possible, before you begin.

Matthew Henry, 1706 · public domain

Proverbs 17:14 in the original Hebrew

Word-by-word with transliteration, English gloss and Strong's number. Tap a number for the full definition and every place the word is used.

פּ֣וֹטֵֽרPo.ter[is one who] lets outH6362
מַ֭יִםMa.yimwaterH4325
רֵאשִׁ֣יתre.Shit[the] beginning ofH7225
מָד֑וֹןma.DonstrifeH4066
וְלִפְנֵ֥יve.lif.Neiand <to> beforeH6440
הִ֝תְגַּלַּ֗עhit.ga.La'it has broken outH1566
הָרִ֥יבha.Rivthe disputeH7379
נְטֽוֹשׁ\׃ne.To.oshabandonH5203

Source: STEPBible TAHOT/TAGNT (Tyndale House, CC BY 4.0).

Cross references for Proverbs 17:14

  • Proverbs 20:3

    It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling.

  • Proverbs 25:8

    Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.

  • 2 Timothy 2:23-24

    But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,

  • 1 Thessalonians 4:11

    And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

  • Ecclesiastes 7:8-9

    Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit. Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.

  • Proverbs 16:32

    He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.

  • Proverbs 15:1

    A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

  • Proverbs 19:11

    The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.

  • 2 Chronicles 25:17-24

    Then Amaziah king of Judah took advice, and sent to Joash, the son of Jehoahaz, the son of Jehu, king of Israel, saying, Come, let us see one another in the face. And Joash king of Israel sent to Amaziah king of Judah, saying, The thistle that was in Lebanon sent to the cedar that was in Lebanon, saying, Give thy daughter to my son to wife: and there passed by a wild beast that was in Lebanon, and trode down the thistle. Thou sayest, Lo, thou hast smitten the Edomites; and thine heart lifteth thee up to boast: abide now at home; why shouldest thou meddle to thine hurt, that thou shouldest fall, even thou, and Judah with thee? But Amaziah would not hear; for it came of God, that he might deliver them into the hand of their enemies, because they sought after the gods of Edom. …

  • Judges 8:1-3

    And the men of Ephraim said unto him, Why hast thou served us thus, that thou calledst us not, when thou wentest to fight with the Midianites? And they did chide with him sharply. And he said unto them, What have I done now in comparison of you? Is not the gleaning of the grapes of Ephraim better than the vintage of Abi–ezer? God hath delivered into your hands the princes of Midian, Oreb and Zeeb: and what was I able to do in comparison of you? Then their anger was abated toward him, when he had said that.

  • Proverbs 26:21

    As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife.

  • Judges 12:1-6

    And the men of Ephraim gathered themselves together, and went northward, and said unto Jephthah, Wherefore passedst thou over to fight against the children of Ammon, and didst not call us to go with thee? we will burn thine house upon thee with fire. And Jephthah said unto them, I and my people were at great strife with the children of Ammon; and when I called you, ye delivered me not out of their hands. And when I saw that ye delivered me not, I put my life in my hands, and passed over against the children of Ammon, and the Lord delivered them into my hand: wherefore then are ye come up unto me this day, to fight against me? Then Jephthah gathered together all the men of Gilead, and fought with Ephraim: and the men of Gilead smote Ephraim, because they said, Ye Gileadites are fugitives of Ephraim among the Ephraimites, and among the Manassites. …

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Treasury of Scripture Knowledge
beginning.
19; 26:21; 29:22; Jud 12:1-6; 2Sa 2:14-17; 19:41-43; 20:1-22
2Ch 10:14-16; 13:17; 25:17-24; 28:6
leave.
13:10; 14:29; 15:1; 16:32; 19:11; 20:3; 25:8; Ge 13:8,9; Jud 8:1-3
Ec 7:8,9; Mt 5:39-41; Ac 6:1-5; 15:2-21; Ro 12:18; 1Th 4:11
2Ti 2:23,24; Jas 3:14-18

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Context

  • Proverbs 17:13

    Whoso rewardeth evil for good, evil shall not depart from his house.

  • Proverbs 17:14

    The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.

  • Proverbs 17:15

    He that justifieth the wicked, and he that condemneth the just, even they both are abomination to the Lord.

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Proverbs 17:14 in other languages

Spanish
Reina-Valera 1909
El que comienza la pendencia es como quien suelta las aguas: deja pues la porfía, antes que se enmarañe.
French
Bible J.N. Darby 1885
Le commencement d’une querelle, c’est comme quand on laisse couler des eaux; avant que la dispute s’échauffe, va-t’en.
German
Elberfelder 1871
Der Anfang eines Zankes ist, wie wenn einer Wasser entfesselt; so laß den Streit, ehe er heftig wird.
Latin
Clementine Vulgate
Qui dimittit aquam caput est jurgiorum, et antequam patiatur contumeliam judicium deserit.