Colossians 3 · Verse 19

Colossians 3:19

Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Colossians 3:19, King James Version

Colossians 3:19 in other translations

BSBHusbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
WEBHusbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them.
ASVHusbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
YLTthe husbands! love your wives, and be not bitter with them;
DARBYHusbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
BBEHusbands, have love for your wives, and be not bitter against them.
WebsterHusbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

What does Colossians 3:19 mean?

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown
19. (Ep 5:22-33.) be not bitter--ill-tempered and provoking. Many who are polite abroad, are rude and bitter at home because they are not afraid to be so there.

Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown, 1871 · public domain

Barnes' Notes
Verse 19. Husbands, love your wives, etc. Eph 4:25, and Eph 4:26-29.

Albert Barnes, 1834 · public domain

Adam Clarke's Commentary
Verse 19 Be not bitter against them - Wherever bitterness is, there love is wanting. And where love is wanting in the married life, there is hell upon earth.

Adam Clarke, 1831 · public domain

Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary on Colossians 3:18-25

The epistles most taken up in displaying the glory of the Divine grace, and magnifying the Lord Jesus, are the most particular in pressing the duties of the Christian life. We must never separate the privileges and duties of the gospel. Submission is the duty of wives. But it is submission, not to a severe lord or stern tyrant, but to her own husband, who is engaged to affectionate duty. And husbands must love their…

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Colossians 3:19 in the original Greek

Word-by-word with transliteration, English gloss and Strong's number. Tap a number for the full definition and every place the word is used.

ΟἱHoiyou who [are]G3588
ἄνδρες,andresHusbands,G435
ἀγαπᾶτεagapatedo loveG25
τὰςtastheG3588
γυναῖκαςgunaikaswivesG1135
καὶkaiandG2532
μὴmēnotG3361
πικραίνεσθεpikrainesthedo be harshG4087
πρὸςprostowardG4314
αὐτάς.¶autasthem.G846

Source: STEPBible TAHOT/TAGNT (Tyndale House, CC BY 4.0).

Cross references for Colossians 3:19

  • 1 Peter 3:7

    Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

  • Genesis 2:23-24

    And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

  • Ephesians 5:25

    Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

  • Colossians 3:21

    Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

  • Ephesians 5:28-29

    So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

  • Ephesians 5:33

    Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

  • Ephesians 4:31

    Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

  • Proverbs 5:18-19

    Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

  • Ecclesiastes 9:9

    Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.

  • Malachi 2:14-16

    Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.

  • Luke 14:26

    If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

  • James 3:14

    But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth.

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Treasury of Scripture Knowledge
love.
Ge 2:23,24; 24:67; Pr 5:18,19; Ec 9:9; Mal 2:14-16; Lu 14:26
Eph 5:25,28,29,33; 1Pe 3:7
bitter.
21; Ro 3:14; Eph 4:31; Jas 3:14

Treasury of Scripture Knowledge (Samuel Bagster, c. 1836) · public domain

Context

  • Colossians 3:18

    Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

  • Colossians 3:19

    Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

  • Colossians 3:20

    Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

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Colossians 3:19 in other languages

Spanish
Reina-Valera 1909
Maridos, amad á vuestras mujeres, y no seáis desapacibles con ellas.
French
Bible J.N. Darby 1885
Maris, aimez vos femmes et ne vous aigrissez pas contre elles.
German
Elberfelder 1871
Ihr Männer, liebet eure Weiber und seid nicht bitter gegen sie.
Latin
Clementine Vulgate
Viri, diligite uxores vestras, et nolite amari esse ad illas.